Sunday, January 8, 2012

Scene from a Memoir {A Runaway Horse, Red Ants and Rattlesnakes}


Linking up with Marcy today!  Goodness she has fantastic writing prompts!

Scene from a memoir Mamas, Don’t Let Your Babies in Cages with Tigers
(Don't Be) Too Timid and Squeamish

And I'm linking up here this week too!  Yea for finding this linky!


FlogYoBlog Friday @ Where's My Glow?





The sun was just beginning to warm the earth when we dropped our card in the box.  There was a "sign-in" at the entrance to the trail and we were requested to leave a note about how many were going, when we were leaving and when we expected to return. This was common practice. The trail was well used, but it was unusual to see more than a couple of other people at any given time and there were wild animals around.  



We had come and camped at the trail head campsite the night before in hopes of getting an early start and hiking farther than we ever had before.  Sunlight was streaming through the evergreens, the moss on them glowing bright enough that it felt as though it might be the source of the light. Hummingbirds darted about and leaves occasionally rustled with unseen creatures as we hiked the path in the Bitterroot Wilderness Area.  I was in front this time. We had gone backpacking before and Mr. Y had led. That was a poor choice. My pace was no match for his and about an hour into the hike, I was done. Today though, I was leading the parade.



I took my time, appreciating every flower, every insect, and every animal I saw.  By the time we stopped to have lunch, I was still feeling full of energy and excited to continue our hike after our brief intermission. 
We stopped by the stream, refilling our water bottles.  Mr. Y spread a space blanket out on the sandy beach, while I retrieved the crackers, sausage and cheese whiz from my backpack.  We sat at the water’s edge, watching fish jump and an Osprey flying about.  It was such a romantic spot.  The day was almost surreal.  As we sat, enjoying the cool breeze,  an unfamiliar sound suddenly came galloping down the trail.  We turned in time to see a riderless horse go galloping by.  Mr. Y jumped up and ran to the trail with me lagging behind.  It wasn’t long though before we saw someone jogging down the path after the horse.  That was such a relief!  We were concerned that we'd find someone injured.


After that bit of excitement, we packed up our lunch and space blanket, refilled our water bottles and got back onto the trail.   The trail pretty well followed the mountain stream, making for indescribable scenery.  Occasionally we’d stop by the water’s edge to observe.  It wasn't unusual to spot a river otter or two.  They joyfully played in the water near to opposite bank, as if no one was around, diving and splashing and acting like toddlers.  It was also very common to spy a trout swimming in the stream.


Time flew by and before we knew it we’d come to a fork in the trail.  Going to the left would take us away from the stream and it was late in the day.  We had already gone about 8 miles and were unsure about whether or not we felt we could hike all the way to the next water source before dark.  The fork to the right continued along the stream, but again, we realized after looking at the map exactly how far we’d gone and decided we were ready to set up camp. 


We walked a little past the fork to a nice shady clearing and began to scope out the spot.  I immediately saw something I had never seen before, an ant hill about 3 feet tall, covered in big red ants.  This was very disturbing to me.  Next to spiders, ants are my second least favorite crawly creature.  I questioned Mr. Y about the spot, concerned about agitating the ants.  He thought I was being silly and reassured me that it would be fine.  I wasn’t buying it though, and at my insistence, we decided to go a little further.  That was when I froze.  At that exact moment I spotted what I knew was a snake.  Not a little snake, a big snake, about as big around as my arm.  It was tan and it was slithering about next to a downed tree branch in the middle of the clearing. 


“Snake.”  I said.  This snake wasn’t the first we’d seen today, but it was quite different and bigger than any I’d ever seen in the wilderness. 

“Where?”  asked Mr. Y.  I pointed out the snake’s location and he said, “No, that’s just a couple of branches.”

“No it isn’t.”  I said, refusing to go any further. 

He looked again, squinting and tilting his head.  He still didn’t see the snake.

“It’s right there!” I insisted, frozen.

Mr. Y picked up a good sized stone and threw it over towards the “branches”.  That is when the snake lifted it's head and rattled its rattler.

“Holy cow!”  said Mr. Y.  “That's a rattlesnake!”

I said, “We need to turn around.”

“Ok.” he said.

We walked away from the shady clearing, back out into the sunny opening where there weren't any places to hide and decided that it was a much better spot for us to set up camp.

“I don’t know how you spotted that snake” he said to me, shaking his head.  “I’m really glad you saw it.  If  there’s one, then there are two," he said to me.

Fantastic, I thought.  This is the thought I need planted in my head 8 miles down the trail.  At least it wasn’t a bear. 

Friday, January 6, 2012

Homeschool Mother's Journal {January 6}

Today I'm linking up with the Homeschool Chick!

The Homeschool Mother's Journal
The Homeschool Chick

In my life this week:

This week I got the opportunity to meet up with a long lost friend from high school.  I'd not seen him for 20+ years.  It was surreal, to say the least.  I can honestly say that neither of us is who we were then and I like who we are now even better.  I got to meet his two beautiful daughters, who immediately hit it off with my 3 children.  The kids are already making plans for when they come back to visit again this summer.  There is nothing quite like being able to say you have friends that live in another country.  Amazing is especially excited for a new pen pal.

In our homeschool this week:

We started back to school on Wednesday with one computer out of commission and two children out of motivation.   The fact that it was such a long break and this was going to be such a short week had them in a mindset that wasn't conducive to being productive.  Yesterday though, we got our dry erase boards and timers back out.  Each of them wrote out their work for the day, plus a couple of extras and set their timers at the start of each subject.  I have no idea how much time they allotted themselves for each subject, but they were doing an excellent job of beating the clock.  I've promised them we would go to "Indoor Park Day".  They are so excited about meeting up with their homeschooling friends again that I suspect they will finish their school work before lunch.

I am inspired by:
Once again, I have to say that I am inspired by the bloggers I am finding out there.  This being the first of the new year, there are all kinds of "year in review" posts for 2011 and new years resolution posts for 2012.  I'm finding more and more wonderful bloggers out there to follow.  What a fantastic group of people with so much to offer!

Places we're going:
Monday we went ice skating to wrap up our final day of the Christmas break.  Today we'll be heading out to an indoor gym with some of our homeschooling friends.  Personally, I'm doing this to celebrate the completion of  a successful first week back.

Questions I have:

What is the point of Pinterest?  I've been invited and apparently, though I've not actually participated in it yet, am being followed (is this creepy???).  I have no clue what I'm doing.  I think I'm going to have to sit down with someone who does to have them show it to me.  I'm just not ready for one more thing to learn, but everybody is going on and on about how great it is.

Books I'm reading:
I've finally started reading The Shack.  Awesome finished it in just a couple of days and returned it too me.  It's taking me significantly longer, but I am very interested in the story.  Having been to a couple of the places he mentions in the story make it all that much more interesting to me.

I'm grateful for:
Again this week I am grateful for my sweet hard working husband.  I got sick yesterday and he just swooped right in and took over the dinner preparation and the cleanup, despite having worked all day already.  I love that man!

Quote to share:

See everything; overlook a great deal; correct a little. ~Pope John XXIII

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Free range daycare provider


I've always considered myself a bit of a free range daycare provider.   My approach to daycare is to provide a loving, home-like, relaxed and open environment for children to explore and be their own people.  I provide a safe environment with boundaries and allow them to develop their own games and adventures.  While I do play music often, I primarily offer books, toys and craft supplies for them to interpret in their own way.  If I see a specific game developing between the 2 and 3 year old, I will offer more toys, rearrange furniture or compliment their play with more imagination suggestions.  We never have circle time and rarely have set projects (aside from the occasional too good to resist hand and finger print projects)  I rarely start the day off with an agenda and I don't consider my daycare to be a preschool.  Learning here occurs as part of natural development and not as a result of introducing concepts and themes and projects.

I start off the day every morning by asking the children how they are today as they come in the door.  I compliment them on something (hair, clothing, smile, manners) and then I ask "what are we going to do today?" and "what toys would you like me to get out?".  I do have a few things set out on Monday, but the toys available shift all week long.   They jump from coloring, to puzzles, to books, to cooking, to cars, to ball games and baby dolls.  They imagine they're in races, in houses, out shopping, cooking in restaurants.  They sing and dance.  They scribble and trace.  They play hide and seek.  All the while I ask questions and they ask questions.  We have discussions.  Have you ever had a discussion with a 3 year old, or better yet a 1 or 2 year old?  They are just like you, only smaller.  They have a world of knowledge and experience to offer and are dying for you to share your world of knowledge and experience with them.  They crave a listening face and love to be understood.

I've never once asked myself "will these children be ready for school".  I've never once worried that they might struggle or be left behind.  These children are learning to think and interact.   Through interaction and observation they are learning words, colors, numbers and shapes.  They sing and dance and are physically active.  They are very bright, every one of them.  I only hope that when they go to school their independent learning qualities will be encouraged and embraced.  I hope that school is ready for them.

Monday, December 12, 2011

Fast, easy no bake chocolate peanut butter cookies to the rescue!

Amazing had her piano recital yesterday (video here!), and as in every recital in the past, I needed to bring a dessert to share at the reception following.  I had planned on making sugar cookies Saturday evening, after my seasonal job, but I had to work 2 hours late and didn't make it home until 8.  Then, I needed to feed my family, who had neglected to eat dinner in my absence (and in the presence of a couple of new video games!) so I didn't even wind up having time until after 9.  At this point, I realized that corn syrup was omitted from the grocery list by my helpful Cosmo, while copying it down from the chalk board for Daddy Y.  Long story short, I was in need of a quick dessert and an extra hour to make it!

Flipping through my recipes, I happened upon this one from my dear friend Lisa, who I think must have been looking out for me from heaven!  We were neighbors years ago, and she and I used to stand at the fence line talking until late into the night while Daddy Y was on 3rd shift.  She had never had any children of her own and she loved spoiling my then 2 year old Awesome.  She brought us these treats one year for Christmas, along with the recipe.

Lovely Lisa's Chocolate Jewel's
(or the 2 remaining, anyway...)







  •  2 cups sugar
  • 1/2 cup milk
  • 4 heaping TBSP cocoa
  • 1/2 stick of margarine






  • 1 cup peanut butter
  • 1 TBSP vanilla
  • 3 cups quick-cooking oatmeal


  • In a large sauce pan, combine the first 4 ingredients (sugar, milk, cocoa, margarine) and stir constantly until boiling.  Then boil while constantly stirring, for one minute.  Don't stop stirring and don't boil for less than one minute (a little longer won't hurt!) or the sugar won't completely dissolve and it won't be the same!

    Once you've finished this, remove the pan from the heat and add in the last 3 ingredients.  I add in my vanilla and peanut butter and stir those until the peanut butter is dissolved and then add my oats.   Place mixture in teaspoon to tablespoon sized scoops (depending on your preference) onto wax paper to cool.  I was in a huge hurry on Sunday, so I placed a sheet of wax paper onto a baking sheet, put 2 dozen teaspoons of the mixture on the pan and stuck it in the freezer to power cool.  I put the remaining mixture on wax paper on a beach towel on my dining room table to cool.  The freezer mixture cooled in about 5 minutes.


    Store the cookies in a storage bag or other air tight container and they will last for approximately 18 hours, unless your family happens to have more reserve than mine does.

    All told, beginning to end, this recipe MAYBE took me 15 minutes. They were very yummy, easy, wonderful cookies to take to our piano recital. I'm all about that!  Thank you for this life saver Lisa!



    Mommy Y's Hot Chocolate


    I think it's kind of funny that my children love my hot chocolate better than any other hot chocolate in the world.  They go on and on and on about how yummy it is.  Want to know my secret?  The first secret is the mug.  Daddy Y had a Santa mug he received in 1971 from his parents.  It's pictured on the left.  It has been glued multiple times over the years.  In 2006, I saw these Santa mugs, and decided my children each needed one as well.  Obviously, it's not the same, but the idea is.  You've got to have a special hot chocolate mug!

    The second secret to my hot chocolate, an extra TBSP of hot chocolate mix (Nestle Rich Milk Chocolate) per serving, mixed with 1/2 hot water and 1/2 whole milk.  None of this thin watery christmas tree lot hot chocolate for my babies!  I usually top it off with christmas shaped marshmallow, but this year, we've "kicked it up a notch" with whipped cream and chocolate syrup and/or sprinkles.  I'm not afraid of sugar.

    Enjoy!

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